90 or 120 minutes | Private Pay | Structured & Directive

If your relationship feels like it’s currently running on adrenaline, defensiveness, and emotional whiplash, then this is the option for you.

The Crisis Reset Intensive is designed for couples who are stuck in a reactive pattern that escalates quickly. This is not the kind of session where you “talk it out” and hope the nervous system eventually calms down. This is a clinician-led reset built to slow the spiral, stabilize communication, and give you a plan that actually holds up outside of the therapy room.

This is structured. It’s direct. It’s regulated. And yes, I will interrupt you (kindly) if things start to go haywire while we’re together.

Best Fit If:

This intensive is a strong match if:

• conflict escalates quickly and often

• you can’t finish conversations without blow-ups, shutdowns, or emotional flooding

• you’re stuck in blame/defensiveness loops

• things feel increasingly unstable or tense at home

• you need immediate structure, not vague “just communicate better” advice

What We’ll Do Together:

During your Crisis Reset Intensive, I will:

• slow the pace and interrupt escalation in real time

• identify the conflict cycle you’re caught in (and what’s fueling it)

• create clear conflict rules and boundaries that work in your real life

• coach both partners through regulation + repair skills

• help you leave with a concrete plan for what happens next

You’ll leave with a strategy and concrete skills you can use together.

What You Should Expect From Me + What I Expect From You:

What you should expect from me: You can expect me to take the lead, slow things down, and gently call you out when the dynamic turns into defensiveness, blame, or emotional chaos disguised as “communication.”
What I expect from you: I expect you to be coachable, meaning you’re willing to pause, listen, and try something different in real time.

Session Length + Pricing

• 90 minutes — $295

• 120 minutes — $395

Optional Add-On:

• 30-minute follow-up session (within 7 days) — $125
  (highly recommended for high-conflict couples who need support integrating the skills)

90 or 120 minutes | Private Pay | Skills-Based

If you love each other but your conversations keep going sideways, this is your option.

The Communication Intensive is for couples who aren’t necessarily in active crisis, but are stuck in a repeating cycle of misunderstanding, defensiveness, shutdown, resentment, emotional distance, or chronic tension that doesn’t fully “blow up”.

You need structure, tools, and a repeatable strategy you can use when real life gets too loud.

Best Fit If:

This intensive is a strong match if:

• you keep having the same argument on repeat

• you struggle to communicate without spiraling into criticism or defensiveness

• one (or both) partners shuts down or gets emotionally flooded

• you want tools that are practical, not fluffy

• you want more teamwork, respect, and emotional safety during conflict

What We’ll Do

During your Communication Intensive, we will:

• identify your relationship’s core communication cycle

• break the escalation loop in real time

• build healthier conflict language and emotional regulation strategies

• practice the tools in session (so you can actually use them at home)

• create a plan for continued growth and accountability

This will about building a new system for how you handle stress, conflict, and repair.

What You Should Expect From Me / What I Expect From You:

What you should expect from me: You can expect direct, compassionate feedback and very practical tools. I will also gently interrupt you when you start defaulting to the same unhelpful pattern you’ve both already memorized.
What I expect from you: I expect openness and effort; if you’re here to be “right” instead of being better, this will feel uncomfortable fast, because this session is for couples willing to do the work.

Session Length + Pricing

• 90 minutes — $295

• 120 minutes — $395

Optional Add-On:

• 30-minute follow-up session (within 7 days) — $125
  (perfect for troubleshooting and reinforcing skills once you’re back in real life)

120 minutes | Private Pay | Reconnection + Repair Work

This intensive is for couples who have experienced a rupture, or something significant that changed the emotional safety of the relationship.

That rupture might look like betrayal, secrecy, broken trust, chronic emotional withdrawal, repeated boundary violations, or the kind of ongoing tension where you’re both still together but it feels like you’re on opposite sides of the relationship instead of inside it together.

This is for couples who don’t want to ignore what happened and “move on.”
You want to repair it correctly with structure and firm guidance.

Best Fit If:

This intensive is a strong match if:

• there has been a trust injury, betrayal, or major rupture

• you’re trying to rebuild, but the hurt keeps resurfacing

• one partner feels hypervigilant and the other feels defensive or hopeless

• you want to rebuild emotional safety, not just reduce conflict

• you want a guided repair conversation that doesn’t turn into shutdown, punishment, or emotional fallout

What We’ll Do:

Repair work requires time and structure. This session is longer by design.

During your Repair + Rebuild Intensive, we will:

• slow the conflict/rupture cycle and create emotional safety

• clarify what the rupture impacted (trust, attachment, stability, connection)

• structure a repair conversation that doesn’t retraumatize either partner

• build a realistic plan for rebuilding consistency, transparency, and connection

• determine next steps (follow-up, ongoing work, or referral support as needed)

This is direct, clinically guided work - the aim is to work through the hurt so you can begin to heal.

What You Should Expect From Me / What I Expect From You:

What you should expect from me: You can expect me to hold the room with structure and care, name what’s happening beneath the surface, and guide the repair conversation so it doesn’t turn into punishment, shutdown, or emotional scorched earth.
What I expect from you: I expect maturity and accountability from both partners. Repair requires total honesty, regulation, and follow-through, and this intensive is not appropriate for couples who want relief without responsibility.

Session Length + Pricing

• 120 minutes — $425

Optional Add-On:

• 30-minute follow-up session (within 7 days) — $125
  (strongly recommended to support repair integration and real-life follow-through)

Payment

This service is private pay only. Payment is due at the time of booking to reserve your appointment.

Cancellation / Reschedule

A minimum of 48 hours’ notice is required to cancel or reschedule. Late cancellations and no-shows will be charged the full session fee.

Not an Emergency Service

This intensive is not crisis intervention, and I do not provide urgent or on-call support between sessions.

Safety + Appropriateness

This format is not appropriate for relationships involving physical violence, intimidation, coercive control, or situations where one partner is afraid to speak freely. If these concerns apply, please schedule a consult rather than booking online.

Truth + Timing

If there are major disclosures planned (affairs, hidden finances, major secrets), a consult is strongly recommended prior to booking so the session can be structured safely and appropriately.

Structure

This is a clinician-led repair session. I will slow pacing, redirect escalation, and guide the process to keep it emotionally safe and productive.